The Other Side
You were never meant to do this alone.
You've read the books. Done the work. Named your patterns a hundred times over. And still — when the shame spiral starts, when the people-pleasing kicks in, when you're smiling and saying "I'm fine" to someone who loves you while quietly falling apart — you're doing it by yourself.
That's the part nobody tells you: insight doesn't happen in isolation. The shift you're looking for doesn't come from understanding your pattern alone in your own head. It comes from being met — not fixed, not advised, just met — by people who actually get it, again and again, until your nervous system starts to believe it's safe to stop performing.
The Other Side …. is this is that place
What This Is:
My private Substack community — part weekly teaching, part standing place to belong, so you're not doing this unraveling by yourself.
What's Included:
A paid-only essay every week
A live session monthly (soon to be biweekly after we reach 10 members) where I walk through the process out loud
A standing place to keep going, week after week — no end date, just diving into the new embodied you
Who is this For?
Anyone who's tired of doing this alone — ready to stop just naming their patterns and start actually feeling them shift, with people around you who won't flinch at any of it. The lowest-commitment way to start doing this work with me.
How This Works:
Click below to be taken straight to my Substack, where you can subscribe to The Other Side directly. Once you're in, everything else lives right there — the weekly essays, the live sessions, the community, all of it.
The Trust Yourself Experience
You've done the work. You've read enough, listened to enough, done enough therapy that you could probably explain your own patterns better than most people ever will.
And you're still stuck.
That's not a you problem. It's because insight doesn't reach the part of you that's actually been in control….the part that clenches, compares, and scrambles to fix everything before you've even let yourself feel it. That part doesn't respond to more intellectual understanding. It responds to something else entirely: being met, right there, instead of fixed.
That's the Trust Yourself Experience … where you uncover what it actually feels like to trust yourself, so you can embody that, not just understand it.
What This Is:
A private session of somatic and energetic work that goes underneath the thinking, straight into what's actually occurring inside you — so you can feel what it's like to embody trusting yourself. Not talking about the pattern but instead experiencing it, feeling it, shifting it in real time, in your body.
What's Included:
A 90-minute 1:1 session with me
30 days of email access — bring whatever comes up after, I'm there
A 30-minute follow-up call at the end, to see what's shifted and what still needs attention
Who This Is For:
Women who've spent their whole lives people-pleasing and are ready to know what it actually feels like to trust themselves. You've probably done the books, the therapy, the podcasts and you understand. But for some reason, you still can't get out. You're tired of fighting yourself and ready to actually feel different right now. You do not just want to know more, but truthfully feel more, embody more, be more you.
How This Works:
After you make your investment you will receive a personal text/email from Leslie herself sending you some details and a personal booking link to schedule on what works best for you. All you have to do is click “reserve your experience and you will be prompted from there.
Investment: $500
Want to talk to Leslie first? Book a free call
Shameless Sustainable Living
You've felt it… the shame-push
Eat right. Drink right.
Get your body right. Get your mind right.
Say yes when you meant no.
Show up for everyone, every time, without complaint.
Push through the exhaustion because rest feels like falling behind.
Hold the house together, the job together, everyone else's feelings together — and call it "handling it. I've got this."
Push harder. Fix faster. Prove you're finally disciplined enough to deserve rest.
You've done the 5am workouts you didn't want to do.
Said no to the thing you actually wanted because it wasn't "on plan." Kept a smile on through a day that was quietly falling apart inside you.
Felt alone in a completely crowded space.
Beaten yourself up over a weekend, a meal, a moment of being human — and called it "getting back on track" instead of what it actually was: punishing yourself into shape.
And even when it "worked" — even when the number moved, the plan held, the to-do list got done, the streak stayed unbroken — it never actually felt like relief.
Just survival. One more day of holding it together. One more day of proving it.
You are so tired of proving it.
The opposite of that isn't more discipline, and it isn't collapsing into doing nothing either.
It's learning to build a life you don't need to prove yourself into… one that holds steady because you trust yourself inside it, not because you're forcing it to.
That is Shameless Sustainable Living.
What This Is:
A 3-month, fully personalized 1:1 experience where the goal isn't more discipline. The goal is a different relationship with yourself. We move from shame as the driver to embodying trust, self-compassion, and a felt sense of safety in your own body, so the changes you make finally come from a loving place instead of a punishing one.
What's Included:
4 hours of live support each month, yours to divide — one hour on Zoom, the rest by phone
Unlimited voxer (walkie-talkie app) & email support the entire 3 months
A fully personalized approach — built around you, not a program you're squeezed into